pop the what?
I welcome the feedback with all my readers on the topic that i want to present to you all tonight. i was on the subject tonight about waiting to have sex or make love when you get married. I have met some people who were on this same path and I always ask them why? tonight wasn't an exception to my eagerness to get another opionion. for me, i didn't feel that i needed to wait until marriage to give my virginity away. I mean, besides a evolution that man went threw, we were and i believe still are animals. when it comes to reproduction animals don't care if they are married or not. they have this chemical hormone in there head that they need to find a chic and give her the goodstuff. lol, that might have been to gross. so y wait until we get married to have sex? those urges that we are feeling is the urge to reproduce. its not that we are horny, we are wanting to reproduce and what makes us human is that we have the choice to resist the feeling to have sex.
If you are religious then that is one reason to wait. but, do u want someone telling u what to do? this is your thing to give. so this thing that you are holding is a gift i would say. u are holding this gift for that guy or gal that u are connected to really well and and your in love then u decide to get married. u go through the wedding and u say your i do's and now it is time to give him or her the gift of your vaginity. why? why give him or her something that was not in the picture in the begin with? he or she didn't marry you to get in your pants. i hope that wouldn't be the reason. losing your V after u get married is like getting some sort of bonus or benefit of getting married. is that right? should it mean that? i think that is terrible.
having sex for the first time should be just for reproduction purposes only if you are one to wait. i don't believe that it was the reason to get married and so don't do it until u are ready to have kids. unfortunately, i might lost the translation in this post, i am just trying to put down what i am thinking and seeing if it will get clearer in my mind. like i said i welcome feedback.
If you are religious then that is one reason to wait. but, do u want someone telling u what to do? this is your thing to give. so this thing that you are holding is a gift i would say. u are holding this gift for that guy or gal that u are connected to really well and and your in love then u decide to get married. u go through the wedding and u say your i do's and now it is time to give him or her the gift of your vaginity. why? why give him or her something that was not in the picture in the begin with? he or she didn't marry you to get in your pants. i hope that wouldn't be the reason. losing your V after u get married is like getting some sort of bonus or benefit of getting married. is that right? should it mean that? i think that is terrible.
having sex for the first time should be just for reproduction purposes only if you are one to wait. i don't believe that it was the reason to get married and so don't do it until u are ready to have kids. unfortunately, i might lost the translation in this post, i am just trying to put down what i am thinking and seeing if it will get clearer in my mind. like i said i welcome feedback.
posted by Justin at 12:08 AM
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